Today is the first day of the rest of my life. It was time to get back on the walking track. (See entry of March 31!) I got up early, even if it was 01:25 AM when I went to bed. I got dressed and went to the "Y" and walked my mile on the track. I will have to work into the "work out" equipment again, but I did walk. I think it's the first time since winter set in after the New Year that I have been there. I am so out of shape, once again (unless "round" is a shape.)
I am tired, and my joints feel the stress, but I have to admit I do feel better. Maybe it's because I actually accomplished something besides sitting in my chair and drinking coffee! (I did stop at the local coffee shoppe on my way home...and the library.)
Peace,
JE
Wednesday, April 30, 2014
Saturday, April 26, 2014
Birthday Blog
Yesterday, my late wife would have been 66 yrs old. She would not have handled it well. She so dreaded growing old.
I have learned that life goes on . Oh, I wish that she was still here, yes. But not in the body she had. She was not well, not happy, not satisfied with the lot that life had dealt her.
I woke up yesterday thinking about her as I often do. I decided to honor her birthday by reading some of her favorite passages in my Bible. I have to admit that I am no Bible scholar, and don't often open it. Shame on me. But I wanted to do something different that visiting her grave and putting more flowers on it. So, I thought this might be a good thing. I opened the Bible to the 23rd Psalm and what should be stuck in that same page but the little folder that I got from the funeral home. I don't remember putting it the, but there it was! I wonder if she was trying to tell me something from the Great Beyond!
I had a brief conversation with her, one sided, I might add. I mentioned to her that if she had taken a bit better care of herself in life, maybe she would be her to celebrate number 66 with me. Then I felt a little guilty for feeling that way. But it's true!
So, I went on with my day, pausing once in a while to remember the many good time, and some no so good times that we had.
My daughter called me last night and said that she was missing her mom. More that she had in the almost 7 years since she passed away. I didn't know exactly what to say, but I just listened. I can see that she is still grieving, maybe more that I. We all grieve in our own way, in our own time.
The memories do still live on. Especially the good ones. Who cares anymore about the bad ones. They are insignificant.
So, Happy Birthday, once again, Tilly.
We Miss You,
JE
I have learned that life goes on . Oh, I wish that she was still here, yes. But not in the body she had. She was not well, not happy, not satisfied with the lot that life had dealt her.
I woke up yesterday thinking about her as I often do. I decided to honor her birthday by reading some of her favorite passages in my Bible. I have to admit that I am no Bible scholar, and don't often open it. Shame on me. But I wanted to do something different that visiting her grave and putting more flowers on it. So, I thought this might be a good thing. I opened the Bible to the 23rd Psalm and what should be stuck in that same page but the little folder that I got from the funeral home. I don't remember putting it the, but there it was! I wonder if she was trying to tell me something from the Great Beyond!
I had a brief conversation with her, one sided, I might add. I mentioned to her that if she had taken a bit better care of herself in life, maybe she would be her to celebrate number 66 with me. Then I felt a little guilty for feeling that way. But it's true!
So, I went on with my day, pausing once in a while to remember the many good time, and some no so good times that we had.
My daughter called me last night and said that she was missing her mom. More that she had in the almost 7 years since she passed away. I didn't know exactly what to say, but I just listened. I can see that she is still grieving, maybe more that I. We all grieve in our own way, in our own time.
The memories do still live on. Especially the good ones. Who cares anymore about the bad ones. They are insignificant.
So, Happy Birthday, once again, Tilly.
We Miss You,
JE
Tuesday, April 22, 2014
More Old Age Maladies
I have oft times said that this growing older is not for sissies. I firmly believe that our golden years are called that, not because they are so golden and wonderful, but because it costs our weight in gold just to survive! Last week I visited my family doc because of a problem I was having. He was unsure about said problem, and said that in all his years of practice he hadn't encountered anything quite like it. So he sent me to a specialist. That specialist, whom I was lucky enough to catch with a cancellation the very next day, checked me out and deemed that my problem was minor and prescribed a 10-day run of antibiotics. Problem #1 is much better and healing. Yesterday morning I woke up with a horrible tooth ache in one of my lower front teeth. So, I called my dentist, who could see me this morning. So took ample Tylenol yesterday to get by and this morning bright and early went to the dentist. I found out that a tooth in front lower was infected down below the tooth into the gum line. I asked Doc what my options were. He said that I was out of options on that tooth as most of it was filling and there was nothing to fix, and it needed to come out. So I had him pull it right then. I already wear a partial plate on the top, so now without it, I will look like a jack-o-lantern. I have to decide by next month how or if I want to fill in the gap. One choice is an implant which is over $3000, and bridge which is slightly under $2000, or another type of bridge which may or may not last several years for just under $500. Wow! I certainly need to do something. I noticed already that I "hiss" when I talk. So, not only is the body beginning to fall apart, this surviving old aging is getting damn expensive. (I do have some insurance coverage for the extraction but not to fill in the gap, but it only pays 80% of "reasonable and customary charges, yeah right!)
Peace (and quiet; my mouth is sore),
JE
Peace (and quiet; my mouth is sore),
JE
Friday, April 04, 2014
A Tough Decision
I had a quick doc's appointment this morning. I started some new meds last month for an internal neuropathic tremor, and Doc M wanted to do a followup today. (Some success, but not there quite yet!)
When I signed in, the receptionist asked me if I was interested in a "living will." I asked her to explain just what that involved. It meant "no heroic life saving measures in a terminal situation." If there is a chance for survival, everything that can be done would be done, but if, say in the case of a car accident, or a massive heart attack, etc, I was not going to make it, then, in other words, "let me go."
Since I had to make that kind of decision for my wife, who had no living will, and for my mom, who had no living will, but had expressed that she didn't want "heroic measures," I signed on the "dotted line" this morning. This is too hard of a decision for a spouse or children to have to make. Emotions are scrambled, and it's hard to think straight. So, now the decision is made. There will be no guilt or regrets for them to have to deal with.
Now, I don't intend to use this for many moons, but it is now in place when the time comes!
Peace, (of mind)
JE
When I signed in, the receptionist asked me if I was interested in a "living will." I asked her to explain just what that involved. It meant "no heroic life saving measures in a terminal situation." If there is a chance for survival, everything that can be done would be done, but if, say in the case of a car accident, or a massive heart attack, etc, I was not going to make it, then, in other words, "let me go."
Since I had to make that kind of decision for my wife, who had no living will, and for my mom, who had no living will, but had expressed that she didn't want "heroic measures," I signed on the "dotted line" this morning. This is too hard of a decision for a spouse or children to have to make. Emotions are scrambled, and it's hard to think straight. So, now the decision is made. There will be no guilt or regrets for them to have to deal with.
Now, I don't intend to use this for many moons, but it is now in place when the time comes!
Peace, (of mind)
JE
Wednesday, April 02, 2014
The Book
Last week while Bro and Sis-in-law were visiting, we began talking about family as one is wont to do as we age. I mean our ancestors.We talked about late grandparents and uncles that we remembered fondly. I dug out Mom's old record of our ancestors, which we always called "the book." It is a meticulously kept record of my mother's mother's family, the Dilts clan. Opening it to the first page, we were confronted with Henry Dilts who married Anna Diels. There were no dates here, but a list of their 8 children, the youngest being Jacob Dilts. His name was ** with a note that said, "our line of descent."
Turning the page, I found that Jacob married Sarah Heath in 1782 and they had 9 children. And thus the story began. (With their son, Asher.)
We followed the line of descent to our grandmother, Sarah Martha Dilts, who was born in 1880 and died in 1961. Bro and I remember her well. A small, quiet lady who tended her kitchen and hens, and never said too much.
Mom had kept "the book" up to date until her death in 1993. I had entered my eldest grandson's name in there some time ago, but that was as far as it went.
So, Bro and I updated it adding pages for my children and his, and listing all of our grandchildren. There are a lot of updates that need to be made, but I am not sure who to contact anymore about births, deaths, marriages and etc.
Little is known about my mom's dad, James Elmer Burdge, but we do know that his parents were William Burdge and Eliza Jane (Ware) Burdge. Born in 1874, Grandpa grew up in Indiana and worked on the Dilts farm, near Lafayette, Indiana, as a hired hand, where he met, courted, and married my grandmother in 1902.
It's fun to look how names were passed down, too. My grandmother was named Sarah Martha, probably after Jacob's wife, and Martha Jane was passed on to my mother.My grandfather was James Elmer, his son was Harry James. Harry had a son named James Ross, and my mother named me James, and I named my own son James. His son is Riley James, and the "beat" goes on!
Such an interesting thing this family history, and it's all there thanks to Mom and "the book."
(Oh, I have a complete history of my dad's side of the family, too, but that's blog fodder for another time.)
Peace,
JE
Turning the page, I found that Jacob married Sarah Heath in 1782 and they had 9 children. And thus the story began. (With their son, Asher.)
We followed the line of descent to our grandmother, Sarah Martha Dilts, who was born in 1880 and died in 1961. Bro and I remember her well. A small, quiet lady who tended her kitchen and hens, and never said too much.
Mom had kept "the book" up to date until her death in 1993. I had entered my eldest grandson's name in there some time ago, but that was as far as it went.
So, Bro and I updated it adding pages for my children and his, and listing all of our grandchildren. There are a lot of updates that need to be made, but I am not sure who to contact anymore about births, deaths, marriages and etc.
Little is known about my mom's dad, James Elmer Burdge, but we do know that his parents were William Burdge and Eliza Jane (Ware) Burdge. Born in 1874, Grandpa grew up in Indiana and worked on the Dilts farm, near Lafayette, Indiana, as a hired hand, where he met, courted, and married my grandmother in 1902.
It's fun to look how names were passed down, too. My grandmother was named Sarah Martha, probably after Jacob's wife, and Martha Jane was passed on to my mother.My grandfather was James Elmer, his son was Harry James. Harry had a son named James Ross, and my mother named me James, and I named my own son James. His son is Riley James, and the "beat" goes on!
Such an interesting thing this family history, and it's all there thanks to Mom and "the book."
(Oh, I have a complete history of my dad's side of the family, too, but that's blog fodder for another time.)
Peace,
JE
Monday, March 31, 2014
Back in the Saddle ( or treadmill) Again!
I was doing so well. I was getting up early, going to the local YMCA, walking on the track, then working out on some of the available equipment that wouldn't kill me. Then, after Christmas, it was so cold, and I had one ailment after the other, mostly in the form of ear infections, and a cold. And it was so damn cold outside! O did I just say that? Well, it was. I lost all desire to even step outside, except to bring in the mail.
Now, it's getting warmer, we did spring forward to "daylight savings time" a few weeks ago, so now it's light out by the time I arise. I have gotten in the bad habit of staying up until the wee hours, then sleeping in. I have to get back in the habit of getting up and getting going. My ambition is not there like it was. I would rather stay home, drink a cup of coffee or two or three and read a good book or craft or watch Netflix..That's the habit I have fallen into during this past super cold winter. And my waistline is showing it.
So, in the near future, I will be forcing myself to rise earlier and go back to the Y. I know it will be like starting all over again....and I was doing so well.
But not tomorrow. I have a breakfast date with two good friends, and then we are going to do some retail therapy. Maybe the day after that or the day after that.
Peace,
JE
Now, it's getting warmer, we did spring forward to "daylight savings time" a few weeks ago, so now it's light out by the time I arise. I have gotten in the bad habit of staying up until the wee hours, then sleeping in. I have to get back in the habit of getting up and getting going. My ambition is not there like it was. I would rather stay home, drink a cup of coffee or two or three and read a good book or craft or watch Netflix..That's the habit I have fallen into during this past super cold winter. And my waistline is showing it.
So, in the near future, I will be forcing myself to rise earlier and go back to the Y. I know it will be like starting all over again....and I was doing so well.
But not tomorrow. I have a breakfast date with two good friends, and then we are going to do some retail therapy. Maybe the day after that or the day after that.
Peace,
JE
Wednesday, March 12, 2014
Weather!
Both Monday and Tuesday I took a cuppa out on my back step and sat in the sunshine and listened to the snow melt. It was 60F out there. I put on a hat, but was in my shirt sleeves. This morning I woke up to about a kazillion inches (6") of new snow and temps hovering around 28 degrees, with promise of it plummeting to single digits tonight! What is with Mom Nature. Someone in the Midwest really pissed her off! The wind is also blowing making travel hazardous and once again schools were canceled. The snow is so heavy, many homes and businesses are losing power due to snow bringing down the power lines. It's a good day to stay home and just look out the windows, those that aren't crusted with blowing wet snow. And to think, there were patches of grass just becoming visible in my yard! Can't see them now! Stay warm and safe, everyone!
Peace,
JE
Peace,
JE
Monday, March 10, 2014
Spring cleaning has begun!
Several weeks ago, my daughter decided to move* to the state capitol where her BF lives. I haven't ventured into the "attic" as she called it, since she has been gone. It's really the upstairs, which is all one big room. So, with the impending visit from my brother and his wife in the near future, I decided to get the upstairs room in order. Curley, my wonderful friend, came in and helped me.
Maggie was neat and clean, but you know how dust collects and windows need washed etc. Well, Curley and I moved all the furniture, cleaned blinds, swept, rearranged everything, put up new curtains, and generally just made a nice room look even better.
This room is 15' wide and 34' long. Much of what Maggie left behind is stacked behind a decorator screen in one end, leaving the rest of the room a nice size. After doing all of that, when we came downstairs from working, I told Curley that it made the downstairs look sorta like it needed a good scrubbing. Plenty of time for that, though, but now I really have Spring fever. It got up to 60 degrees this afternoon, so after Curley left, I made myself a cuppa tea and went out and sat in the sun on my back step. I think I could actually hear that 3' snow drift melting. My yard has lots of shade, even when the trees are bare, so the snow is slow leaving. But, Spring is definitely in the air and I am so ready!
Peace,
JE
note* Maggie's move was a success and she is fully employed and happy!
Maggie was neat and clean, but you know how dust collects and windows need washed etc. Well, Curley and I moved all the furniture, cleaned blinds, swept, rearranged everything, put up new curtains, and generally just made a nice room look even better.
This room is 15' wide and 34' long. Much of what Maggie left behind is stacked behind a decorator screen in one end, leaving the rest of the room a nice size. After doing all of that, when we came downstairs from working, I told Curley that it made the downstairs look sorta like it needed a good scrubbing. Plenty of time for that, though, but now I really have Spring fever. It got up to 60 degrees this afternoon, so after Curley left, I made myself a cuppa tea and went out and sat in the sun on my back step. I think I could actually hear that 3' snow drift melting. My yard has lots of shade, even when the trees are bare, so the snow is slow leaving. But, Spring is definitely in the air and I am so ready!
Peace,
JE
note* Maggie's move was a success and she is fully employed and happy!
Saturday, March 08, 2014
My Desktop Screen
This is what I see every time I sit down at my computer. No wonder I spend so much time on here!
Peace,
JE
Saturday Thought
As I sit here with my Saturday cuppa, I have been thinking about my life, as one who is aging is wont to do sometimes. I know this is not too profound but here's what I have come up with.
When I was young, going out into the world, I was a "half" looking for someone special to make a "whole." I found that someone and had the "whole" life for almost 40 years. Now I am a "half" again. I am not especially looking for another special someone to make me a "whole" again. If I spend the rest of my life as a "half," I'm okay with that.
As I reread this, it makes me think that I might be more profound than I thought.
Peace,
JE
When I was young, going out into the world, I was a "half" looking for someone special to make a "whole." I found that someone and had the "whole" life for almost 40 years. Now I am a "half" again. I am not especially looking for another special someone to make me a "whole" again. If I spend the rest of my life as a "half," I'm okay with that.
As I reread this, it makes me think that I might be more profound than I thought.
Peace,
JE
Wednesday, February 26, 2014
All the Insanity
Many states now are going into legislature on gay rights. Gay marriage is the big topic here in Indiana. I really don't care what sexual orientation a person is. Does it really matter? If people are nice to me, I am nice to them, gay or straight! I have relatives that are gay. I have many gay friends. We all get along. I think they should have the same rights as straight people do. Two gay people living in a house together, whether married or not, if they share the mortgage, expenses, and their income, they should have the same tax breaks as straight couples do. And so on, and so on!
I was watching TV today and there were two gay men talking. One man was trying out "straight" life, was very unhappy. His friend finally told him, and the conversation went something like this: (not word for word, my memory isn't that good!)
"You are made in the image of God. God put you here just as you are. Just as he did every other person, plant animal, fish and fowl...and gay person. He loves all of his creation. God doesn't make mistakes, so you know he loves you, too."
After hearing that, I thought how true this is. God loves us all, no matter what race, creed or orientation we are.
Okay, I know this will probably cause an uproar, not everyone will agree with me, and I don't expect them to. But I have an opinion and I felt, after all the AZ turmoil, that I just wanted to express my opinion. My blog, my right to speak out. Fortunately,sanity prevailed, and Arizona's gov. vetoed the bill. But did she do it because it was the right thing to do morally, or did she veto the bill because it would hurt the state of AZ financially if she didn't. We won't ever know. I am just glad that it got vetoed.
Peace,
JE
I was watching TV today and there were two gay men talking. One man was trying out "straight" life, was very unhappy. His friend finally told him, and the conversation went something like this: (not word for word, my memory isn't that good!)
"You are made in the image of God. God put you here just as you are. Just as he did every other person, plant animal, fish and fowl...and gay person. He loves all of his creation. God doesn't make mistakes, so you know he loves you, too."
After hearing that, I thought how true this is. God loves us all, no matter what race, creed or orientation we are.
Okay, I know this will probably cause an uproar, not everyone will agree with me, and I don't expect them to. But I have an opinion and I felt, after all the AZ turmoil, that I just wanted to express my opinion. My blog, my right to speak out. Fortunately,sanity prevailed, and Arizona's gov. vetoed the bill. But did she do it because it was the right thing to do morally, or did she veto the bill because it would hurt the state of AZ financially if she didn't. We won't ever know. I am just glad that it got vetoed.
Peace,
JE
Tuesday, February 25, 2014
I'm Back
After a few frustrating days without blogging, I am back in business. Every time I tried to log on to blogger dashboard, I was told that I didn't have access to that account. WHAT? I have been blogging for something like 7 or 8 years now....give me a break.
I fussed and fumed going in and out of every "help" menu I could find. Finally, I went on to my Firefox browser and chose the "reset, restart" option and here I am. I don't know if I inadvertently clicked on something trying to do something else, or what, and I am so very inept at this whole cyberspace thing, that I couldn't figure it out. So, reset I did. Now, I hope I didn't lose a bunch of stuff, but if I did, I will just have to live with it, or bring in "Tall Guy" my computer guru to untangle my mess.
But for now, Yay! I am back!
Peace,
JE
I fussed and fumed going in and out of every "help" menu I could find. Finally, I went on to my Firefox browser and chose the "reset, restart" option and here I am. I don't know if I inadvertently clicked on something trying to do something else, or what, and I am so very inept at this whole cyberspace thing, that I couldn't figure it out. So, reset I did. Now, I hope I didn't lose a bunch of stuff, but if I did, I will just have to live with it, or bring in "Tall Guy" my computer guru to untangle my mess.
But for now, Yay! I am back!
Peace,
JE
Sunday, February 16, 2014
Another "Getting to Know Me" List!
I "stole" this from my friend Mel over at "Mellodee's Musings."
It's ANOTHER one of those lists. More
insight about ME!
It’s all about books:
It’s all about books:
1: Favorite children's book?
I received a copy of Peter Pan in grade school. Loved it. Also, The Bears of Blue River was a childhood favorite.
2: What is the next book you plan to read?
I just ordered The Language of Flowers to read for my book club.
3: Books on your "to read" list?
I generally don't keep a list. I get notification from my public library of their new fiction and also from Amazon, so I watch for things that interest me.
4: Top 5 authors?
My current favorites, in no particular order – Paul Doiron, Harlan Coben, James Patterson, Lee Childs, Lisa Scottoline, Earlene Fowler.
5: Favorite genres?
Thriller/Suspense, mystery, legal and political, and western.
I received a copy of Peter Pan in grade school. Loved it. Also, The Bears of Blue River was a childhood favorite.
2: What is the next book you plan to read?
I just ordered The Language of Flowers to read for my book club.
3: Books on your "to read" list?
I generally don't keep a list. I get notification from my public library of their new fiction and also from Amazon, so I watch for things that interest me.
4: Top 5 authors?
My current favorites, in no particular order – Paul Doiron, Harlan Coben, James Patterson, Lee Childs, Lisa Scottoline, Earlene Fowler.
5: Favorite genres?
Thriller/Suspense, mystery, legal and political, and western.
6: Do you have multiple books in process or just one
at a time?
One at a time. Multitasking is something I cannot do with anything. I’m a one-thing-at-a-time kind of guy.
7: A book that you've cried over?
One at a time. Multitasking is something I cannot do with anything. I’m a one-thing-at-a-time kind of guy.
7: A book that you've cried over?
Fine Things by Danielle Steele, and The Notebook.
8:A book that made you laugh out loud?
I can’t think of anything that really tickled me so much that I laughed out loud! Sorry!
9:Fiction or nonfiction?
I have always said I read enough for knowledge while in college, so its fiction all the way!
10:First book you've read by your favorite author?
I don't have just one favorite author. The first book by Louis L’Amour that I ever read, The Last of the Breed, was my favorite by him. I like and have read just about everything all of my listed authors have written.
11:Best book-to-movie adaptation?
Probably Gone With The Wind, and I say that one because I don’t usually go see adaptations.
8:A book that made you laugh out loud?
I can’t think of anything that really tickled me so much that I laughed out loud! Sorry!
9:Fiction or nonfiction?
I have always said I read enough for knowledge while in college, so its fiction all the way!
10:First book you've read by your favorite author?
I don't have just one favorite author. The first book by Louis L’Amour that I ever read, The Last of the Breed, was my favorite by him. I like and have read just about everything all of my listed authors have written.
11:Best book-to-movie adaptation?
Probably Gone With The Wind, and I say that one because I don’t usually go see adaptations.
12:Do you read comics/manga?
Nope.
13:Hardcovers or Paperbacks?
I prefer hardcovers, but I do read paperbacks and I own a Kindle, but I don’t use it much. Too much like a video game!
14:Do you buy books as soon as they come out or wait a while?
I rarely buy a book. I have a huge public library practically out my back door, so I use it. I reserve books as soon as they are released, though.
15:Do you buy books spontaneously without any prior knowledge of what happens in it?
See # 14.. but I want to know what I’m getting, so I do some prior research, and always read the fly jacket before I either check it out at the library, or make a purchase.
16:Have you ever bought a book based on the cover alone?
Nope.
Nope.
13:Hardcovers or Paperbacks?
I prefer hardcovers, but I do read paperbacks and I own a Kindle, but I don’t use it much. Too much like a video game!
14:Do you buy books as soon as they come out or wait a while?
I rarely buy a book. I have a huge public library practically out my back door, so I use it. I reserve books as soon as they are released, though.
15:Do you buy books spontaneously without any prior knowledge of what happens in it?
See # 14.. but I want to know what I’m getting, so I do some prior research, and always read the fly jacket before I either check it out at the library, or make a purchase.
16:Have you ever bought a book based on the cover alone?
Nope.
17:Where do you usually buy your
books?
If I buy one, I go to Amazon, Goodwill, Half-Priced Books, Costco, garage sales, Barnes and Noble, flea markets, drug stores......I'm not picky!
If I buy one, I go to Amazon, Goodwill, Half-Priced Books, Costco, garage sales, Barnes and Noble, flea markets, drug stores......I'm not picky!
18:Book that had a strong impact on
you?
Brave New World, Ben Hur, The Help, The Art of Racing In The Rain. There are many.
19:Historical or science fiction?
Neither
20:Dystopian or Utopian?
Huh???
21:Once you start to read a book, do you feel compelled to finish it?
Not anymore. For years I thought if I started a book, I had to finish it. But a few years ago, I began giving myself permission to close a book if I didn’t enjoy it. I am selective when I choose a book, so it is rare that I don’t finish one. But it does happen occasionally. Life’s too short to spend it doing anything one doesn’t have to do.
22: What genres do you refuse to read?
Horror, porn, historical fiction of the “bodice ripper” genre, fantasy and sc-fi.
23: How many books do you own?
Many. But I have purged my shelves of things I have read and won’t reread. But still have LOTS of books!
24:Do you go the library?
All the time. They know me so well I don’t have to show them my card. They even call me if they get something in that they think I might like. I can walk there in 5 minutes, why not!!
25:How many books do you read a year?
Since I retired it has usually been around 80-120 a year. I also like to craft and have a house and yard to keep!
Brave New World, Ben Hur, The Help, The Art of Racing In The Rain. There are many.
19:Historical or science fiction?
Neither
20:Dystopian or Utopian?
Huh???
21:Once you start to read a book, do you feel compelled to finish it?
Not anymore. For years I thought if I started a book, I had to finish it. But a few years ago, I began giving myself permission to close a book if I didn’t enjoy it. I am selective when I choose a book, so it is rare that I don’t finish one. But it does happen occasionally. Life’s too short to spend it doing anything one doesn’t have to do.
22: What genres do you refuse to read?
Horror, porn, historical fiction of the “bodice ripper” genre, fantasy and sc-fi.
23: How many books do you own?
Many. But I have purged my shelves of things I have read and won’t reread. But still have LOTS of books!
24:Do you go the library?
All the time. They know me so well I don’t have to show them my card. They even call me if they get something in that they think I might like. I can walk there in 5 minutes, why not!!
25:How many books do you read a year?
Since I retired it has usually been around 80-120 a year. I also like to craft and have a house and yard to keep!
26:Do you enjoy reading the
"Classics"?
Nope.
27:Do you ever re-read a book?
I have one that I have read 3 times. It's like visiting an old friend!
Nope.
27:Do you ever re-read a book?
I have one that I have read 3 times. It's like visiting an old friend!
Peace (and quiet...I'm reading),
JE
Friday, February 14, 2014
Happy Valentine's Day
Next to Christmas, this is the hardest holiday for me. It holds so many memories for me. The grade school Valentine parties, the sweetheart dances in High School. The many cards and letters I got from my sweety while I was in college, encouraging me to carry on after my dad had passed away. He knew her, and loved her and thought I had finally found the right one. He didn't live long enough to see us married, but I knew he was there in spirit.
I remember getting engaged in February of 1969, and married in August. Then there were the 38 years of celebrating Valentine's Day with my wife. Some years we went out to celebrate, some years not. Some times there was candy and flowers and some years not. But, there was always love.
We never expected it to end. At least not so soon. But it did. But the memories are still there. I still have some of the cards she sent me or gave me or I found on my pillow at bedtime. I can no longer remember any specific Valentine's Day except the first one, right after we met. We met on a blind date, in November of 1967. That first Valentine"s Day, I had my photo made for her and gave her a heart shaped necklace. Cheesy, huh! Well, surprises of surprises, she had had her photo made for me and gave me a sterling silver tie tack. Our minds even then, seemed to be on the same wave length. As time went by, we found that often we seemed to be thinking the sames things at the same time. It was as if we were soul mates from the very beginning.
Yes, the memories linger on. All good!
Peace,
JE
I remember getting engaged in February of 1969, and married in August. Then there were the 38 years of celebrating Valentine's Day with my wife. Some years we went out to celebrate, some years not. Some times there was candy and flowers and some years not. But, there was always love.
We never expected it to end. At least not so soon. But it did. But the memories are still there. I still have some of the cards she sent me or gave me or I found on my pillow at bedtime. I can no longer remember any specific Valentine's Day except the first one, right after we met. We met on a blind date, in November of 1967. That first Valentine"s Day, I had my photo made for her and gave her a heart shaped necklace. Cheesy, huh! Well, surprises of surprises, she had had her photo made for me and gave me a sterling silver tie tack. Our minds even then, seemed to be on the same wave length. As time went by, we found that often we seemed to be thinking the sames things at the same time. It was as if we were soul mates from the very beginning.
Yes, the memories linger on. All good!
Peace,
JE
Wednesday, February 12, 2014
And the Cold Continues
The cold continues here in the Midwest. This morning the temps are well below 0, and the icicles are hanging without drips. My back porch is amass with ice where the ice dams have overcome the gutters and have dripped . I salt periodically, which helps while the sun is out, but then all that "wet" freezes at night. I have been using my other door and walking around the house to get into the garage rather than risking falling on the ice. There are virtual mountains of snow everywhere. Now the weather prognosticators are saying that a warming trend is headed our way and the temperature may hit above freezing by next midweek!
I am not really complaining about the cold. I am just tired of it, and the snow. Some of you live where this would seem like a party, but those of us in the Midwestern USA just aren't used to this bitter cold and this much snow. I feel blessed that I have a warm (?) house, and plenty to eat. My power hasn't wavered once, and the phone, cable and internet service has not been interrupted. I have an adequate supply of reading and crafting materials. My neighbor has been more than helpful in removing snow. My great friend Curley calls me at some point every day to check on me. So, this being said, I am lucky. And feel extremely blessed. Spring will definitely be welcome this year!
Peace,
JE
I am not really complaining about the cold. I am just tired of it, and the snow. Some of you live where this would seem like a party, but those of us in the Midwestern USA just aren't used to this bitter cold and this much snow. I feel blessed that I have a warm (?) house, and plenty to eat. My power hasn't wavered once, and the phone, cable and internet service has not been interrupted. I have an adequate supply of reading and crafting materials. My neighbor has been more than helpful in removing snow. My great friend Curley calls me at some point every day to check on me. So, this being said, I am lucky. And feel extremely blessed. Spring will definitely be welcome this year!
Peace,
JE
Sunday, February 09, 2014
This Is A Test!
Some of you might have already seen this, but a friend of mine sent me a copy of an actual test given to 8th graders as a final exam so they could graduate from 8th grade....in 1895!
Since I am a former educator and English was my specialty, I am only including the "grammar" section of the test. Holy Cow! I thought I was doing well to get through college in 1968. I'm extremely glad I didn't have to pass this exam!
Grammar (Time, one hour)
1. Give nine rules for the use of capital letters.
2. Name the parts of speech and define those that have no modifications.
3. Define verse, stanza and paragraph
4. What are the principal parts of a verb? Give principal parts of 'lie, ''play,' and 'run.'
5. Define case; illustrate each case.
6 What is punctuation? Give rules for principal marks of punctuation.
7 - 10. Write a composition of about 150 words and show therein that you understand the practical use of the rules of grammar.
Well, see how well you do. I had a little problem with #4 and #5.
I don't have an answer key. I looked up a few things in my old grammar handbook.
There's more subjects tested. I skipped the Arithmetic section altogether. I did well on the US history section, I think!! (I didn't write a composition, either.)
Peace,
JE
Since I am a former educator and English was my specialty, I am only including the "grammar" section of the test. Holy Cow! I thought I was doing well to get through college in 1968. I'm extremely glad I didn't have to pass this exam!
Grammar (Time, one hour)
1. Give nine rules for the use of capital letters.
2. Name the parts of speech and define those that have no modifications.
3. Define verse, stanza and paragraph
4. What are the principal parts of a verb? Give principal parts of 'lie, ''play,' and 'run.'
5. Define case; illustrate each case.
6 What is punctuation? Give rules for principal marks of punctuation.
7 - 10. Write a composition of about 150 words and show therein that you understand the practical use of the rules of grammar.
Well, see how well you do. I had a little problem with #4 and #5.
I don't have an answer key. I looked up a few things in my old grammar handbook.
There's more subjects tested. I skipped the Arithmetic section altogether. I did well on the US history section, I think!! (I didn't write a composition, either.)
Peace,
JE
Friday, February 07, 2014
Technology!
As I sat down in my recliner I happened to just take a good look at the end table beside my chair. I decided that technology has taken over my life. There was as follows:
A remote for the TV
A remote for my DVR
A remote for my Roku (Netflix, Pandora etc run off of this one)
My cell phone
My portable house phone
My Kindle e-reader
Also included, but not directly related to technology were scissors, a binder clip(?) a tin of Cinnamon Altoids and, of course, a coaster for my coffee.
I need a bigger table!
Peace,
JE
A remote for the TV
A remote for my DVR
A remote for my Roku (Netflix, Pandora etc run off of this one)
My cell phone
My portable house phone
My Kindle e-reader
Also included, but not directly related to technology were scissors, a binder clip(?) a tin of Cinnamon Altoids and, of course, a coaster for my coffee.
I need a bigger table!
Peace,
JE
Thursday, February 06, 2014
Digging out One More Time!
I won't bore you with all the details, but we got pounded with another 10 inches of snow Tuesday night. Yesterday was spent clearing walks one more time. The city is running out of places to pile snow, so it is being loaded into trucks and dumped somewhere else. I cannot get to my tool shed without walking through 3 feet of snow. Lucky for me, my shovel was propped against the back of the house.
Today it is cold but the sun is shining. Maybe there is hope that Spring is "just around the corner."
I have a great neighbor who got a new snow blower this season and he is keeping the shared alleyway and his drive as well as mine cleared. I am not planning any great outings, but I can get out if I have to. Thanks to this much younger, energetic fellow. I feel that I owe him something. I offered. He said NO! This is definitely an example of what being a "good neighbor" is all about.
Peace,
JE
Today it is cold but the sun is shining. Maybe there is hope that Spring is "just around the corner."
I have a great neighbor who got a new snow blower this season and he is keeping the shared alleyway and his drive as well as mine cleared. I am not planning any great outings, but I can get out if I have to. Thanks to this much younger, energetic fellow. I feel that I owe him something. I offered. He said NO! This is definitely an example of what being a "good neighbor" is all about.
Peace,
JE
Wednesday, February 05, 2014
Remembering Mom
Today is my mother's birthday. If she was living, she would be 97. She's been gone over 20 years now. I still miss her. She was my "go to" person if I had questions about my heritage. She had "the book," which held all the family information from many past generations, and she vigilantly kept it current.
Mom was a gentle soul. She was very much in the know, and was a retired teacher. She taught grades 1 through 6 during her 27 years of teaching. She loved what she did. Which is commendable seeing as how the pay for teachers was not then what it is today. She touched lives. She was loved by her students. She knew what teaching was all about.
Mom was a disciplinarian. If my older brother or I needed correcting, there was never any of the "wait till your father gets home," stuff with her. She took care of it, then forgot about it. A few times we had to even cut our own switches, and she used them. Many times with tears in her eyes.
Mom loved her family. She loved my brother and I with every bit of her soul. She loved my dad the same way. She loved her daughters-in-law like they were her own children and thought her grandchildren were certainly "grand." She was loyal and kind. She was quiet. She loved her church and the people in it. She was every inch a "lady." And, I might add, she was beautiful. Oh, not in a glamorous way, but possessed a beauty that shined from the inside out.
I miss her smile and her gentle nature, but most of all I miss her laughter!
Hats off to you Mom. Happy Birthday!
Peace,
JE
Mom was a gentle soul. She was very much in the know, and was a retired teacher. She taught grades 1 through 6 during her 27 years of teaching. She loved what she did. Which is commendable seeing as how the pay for teachers was not then what it is today. She touched lives. She was loved by her students. She knew what teaching was all about.
Mom was a disciplinarian. If my older brother or I needed correcting, there was never any of the "wait till your father gets home," stuff with her. She took care of it, then forgot about it. A few times we had to even cut our own switches, and she used them. Many times with tears in her eyes.
Mom loved her family. She loved my brother and I with every bit of her soul. She loved my dad the same way. She loved her daughters-in-law like they were her own children and thought her grandchildren were certainly "grand." She was loyal and kind. She was quiet. She loved her church and the people in it. She was every inch a "lady." And, I might add, she was beautiful. Oh, not in a glamorous way, but possessed a beauty that shined from the inside out.
I miss her smile and her gentle nature, but most of all I miss her laughter!
Hats off to you Mom. Happy Birthday!
Peace,
JE
Saturday, January 18, 2014
More White Stuff!
This view out my front door about an hour ago. Okay, Mom Nature, I think we have had enough now!
Peace and shovel,
JE
JE
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